How to choose life partner

When you are in a relationship It isn't necessary that relation is going to reach marriage. So even if  you like somebody or attracted to someone doesn't mean he or she is going to be your life partner.

To become life partner of someone is not about some kind of talent or quality. Anyone can become partner for someone at certain age of their life. This is like kind of stage which comes for everybody when they are be ready at that time to merry someone. If you are hoping for someone you should be available at that time for them☺.

It doesn't matter how marriage is done by love or arranged, when you choose someone for your life is the matter of seconds. 

Whether you are in a relation and know someone from long time or you meet with person for couple of minutes then decide. But before that everyone should think not with only heart but with mind also.

Practically people choose their partner in various situations.

• In relationship maximum avoid to think a second thought, if their relation is going well when time comes they decide to marry.
• In India when i talk about arranged marriages you have some options and you have to decide in one shot of meeting that is more risky than love marriages. 

There are some points to consider when time come to choose someone, you must to be sure yourself.  

Who makes you feel important

A person who is kind to others and respect others because of humanity that kind of person will be most reliable for a relation.

Some thoughts have been share by Gour gopal das as follows..

"The very foundation of a good relationship is to respect others, to make them feel important, to not impose our superiority on them, to not impose our personality, to not impose our opinion, our likes, our dislikes which is why i say when i speak to those who impose themselves on me, i get a feeling that they are important but when i speak to those who truly love me, i get a feeling that i am important." 

Not a dominating person 

When you live with someone you live two lives. Your experiences come from two sides and you can learn from both the sides, you can enjoy more things than when you were single. but if you try to impose your thoughts, likes and dislikes to your partner you will loose their uniqueness and there is no meaning to being together because there is only one. For lifetime purpose if your partner controls you then you would not live truly and happily.  

Like a friend

A person who understand you like you don't have to worry about talking to him/her anything. Honesty to each other whether there is your benefit or not, is necessary in relationship. Sometimes you don't reveal your secrets to partners. May be you think how he/she would react or you don't want to show him/her your side, In both the situations you are taking their right to know, this will hurt them more, and of course you can't be stay real as you really are.  

Although when in a relation this kind of comfort and understanding to tell everything is rare but it is possible and beautiful, and you don't need to worry about your lies and image when your partner is your friend. 

Not a judgmental one

If someone who always judge you, how difficult to you to survive.

You will feel lost and underestimated, this create discomfort between couple. Partner should be open minded person who can accept your odds and support you in your growth. When you judge people you will find negative and positive points, you will react to them in biased way because you care about their negative things more than positive, so your thinking process will always go in a wrong way and make your relation weak. 

We never think about that how we just silently misunderstand people because we try to put a label on them. In relationship this get worse when you make an image of partner and never change that for the rest of life. 

The main purpose is to find your best match. It doesn't mean the best match would be perfect for all because your best would be depend upon you. When you have some qualities and inferiority then your match will be according to you.

Some dis-qualities can be adjustable it depend upon you. You can ignore what is less important for you, things which you can adjust with them or compromise, you should sure about those. 

Main points which can't be ignored are:-

"Awareness" about some thing which shouldn't be ignored because it can effect you in a long term of your life.

partner's attitude towards life can't be ignorable because you are going to spend your life with him/her. If he/she is not optimistic then in future there is chance that your thought process also can be effected in that way and that is not good for both of you. 

Awareness :- About him/her self

 A person who is aware about self. It is necessary, who has no idea about self doesn't make sense to go for any relation. People generally ignore that but a person's personality depends upon that how he/she think about self. 

Awareness  :- About Career

Woman or man's thoughts about career apparently reflect their aim and plans for future. If you want to take decision about marriage consider their career plans because it will affect directly to you.

Awareness  :- About Heath 

A person who knows fitness's important will also promote it and as a couple you will always inspire each other. This is good point because who has this kind of sense, definitely will have a positive and good perception for life. and for living it.

Awareness  :- About partner

Someone who thinks about life partner like what kind of partner he/she wants and what he/she expects from them this mean they are clearly serious about that and try to get a clear picture of partner. they are trying for that, this is good, it mean you are handling with the person who also having serious intention of marriage.

If you can judge these things in a person by any hints you can choose right person for you. 

Nobody is perfect may be some things can be changed or missing for you but you have to think about the things which are essential for you and can't be ignored in future because you can't live with that so you should always remember these thing when you are going to choose someone for you. Best of luck.

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