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Wisdom through Depression

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Anxiety, stress, depression whatever it is called but it can only be understood by the person who had experienced that period in their life. If you have option to think and go back in your past where you faced that, you won't go. Nobody will but for one moment if we think about what we have faced and because of that what has changed in us? the answer will be "wisdom".... How?   Depression or stress starts from one emotion that one emotion turn on all bad emotions. That emotion can be fear, insecurity, feeling alone, helpless, hopeless which had buried inside us. After start it raises fear and make weak our mind to recover. This whole thing is just a game of mind which is not working for us.   In our life journey we keep so many emotions and thoughts inside us which we keep unopened and hidden to everyone. Depression is just result or last stage of that emotional burden which we haven't solve in our mind. When we fight to our stress we fight to ourself, bas

Hobby's secret

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Hobby means like dancing, drawing, cooking etc. People want to do stuff because they like that.  May be you are thinking it is a simple topic but it isn't, may be like to do stuff has a reason behind that.   A person is a human software. A technology who has difficult structure. If somebody like to do a particular stuff persistently then it is not a common or random thing. For example somebody likes to write stories but he wants to write funny stories. The question is why he wants to like a particular thing in a particular way? How does he choose that?.  In some cases family's talent is carried by next generations so  probably this may be one of the reason for them. It happens for some people but what about others?... how their mind choose a hobby or talent in which they grow gradually and make them self an expert. Sachin Tendulkar the famous cricketer who is called as a god of cricket. How he chose to play cricket?  Lots of people know the story behind that

If you want to be rich

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If you want to be rich first thing you need to figure out is, why? Yeah.. why you want to become a rich person? This question is more important and necessary than your desire to achieve your dream. I assume here that making yourself  rich   is the way to be happy because it is a common thought that if some one gets lot of money he would not have to worry anymore. People has different purposes and troubles which can solve by money as per their thoughts. So first you think about your past life where once you wanted something badly and thought like this thing will make you happy in future.... after some struggle you achieved that. In that moment you were happy but, is your happiness still stay with you? It was there but after some moments you were being worry for another things and it goes again and again.  This mean whatever you think ever for cause of your happiness is gonna end someday. Now link this with your money dream, more money will not make you happy forever. Ma

Is your work worthy for life?

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If we talk about life goals whether you are man or woman and you work(Job or business) then the goals of working may be great success and great money. If we divide three categories of people then lower level  :-the reason of working is more money, they want this because of their needs, next middle level  :-they want success beside more money and upper level  :-who like to call them self rich, they have already enough money but still want more to maintain their status   and they want to become famous or achiever. So these are general differentiation based on maximum people thinking. Exceptions are always there of course.    We spend most of the life and energy at work. We educate because we want to grow with maximum potential in terms of mind and body. Then we get skills to earn for living standards. Then we work until our body will reduced to minimum potential. In between period we do experience a lot things but the most of time and energy consuming task is "work".

How to get a Date

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I am discussing here some particular things which most of the girls like but it doesn't mean every boy should have to be that particular guy who has all this things. First of all  be yourself , It is not necessary to pretend someone else because if you do so then  you will get wrong person for you. On the other hand if you be yourself you would get chance late but the main thing is to connect with the right person so if your personality doesn't support below things then don't try these.  These are the points to remember when you want a date with someone and you want her to say yes for the date. 1.Try not to desperate You should not show your interest at first time that doesn't mean you don't like her but try not to show that kind of interest in her at first meeting or in first conversation online or on call. Some guys seem more interested at starting stage but some are gradually increase their interest so  first impress her then surprise her to ask. 2.Be

How to make shopping list?

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We all love shopping specially women. When we need something, we go to the market for purchasing or buy online. If you want to make sure that you can't miss something then you make a list of items.  We all know this list out things, a child can do that but here i am not talking just this.  Here i want to put your attention over habits of purchasing. When you go to the market to buy your listed things but at the end of shopping you come at home with more thing than you planned to buy. This happens often with all of us. We buy some products because of advertisement what we see over and over.  Our mind has tendency to accept the fact which we listen, watch or speak repeatedly .  This fact use by advertisers against us.When we see same product or item over and over everywhere, we think that it is in trend and our mind feel "it is necessary". So we buy that but in reality that thing may not be necessary for us.  More spend doesn't mean good livin

How to choose life partner

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When you are in a relationship It isn't necessary that relation is going to reach marriage. So even if  you like somebody or attracted to someone doesn't mean he or she is going to be your life partner. To become life partner of someone is not about some kind of talent or quality. Anyone can become partner for someone at certain age of their life. This is like kind of stage which comes for everybody when they are be ready at that time to merry someone. If you are hoping for someone you should be available at that time for them ☺. It doesn't matter how marriage is done by love or arranged, when you choose someone for your life is the matter of seconds.  Whether you are in a relation and know someone from long time or you meet with person for couple of minutes then decide. But before that everyone should think not with only heart but with mind also. Practically people choose their partner in various situations. In relationship maximum avoid to think a s