How to get a Date

I am discussing here some particular things which most of the girls like but it doesn't mean every boy should have to be that particular guy who has all this things. First of all be yourself, It is not necessary to pretend someone else because if you do so then you will get wrong person for you. On the other hand if you be yourself you would get chance late but the main thing is to connect with the right person so if your personality doesn't support below things then don't try these. 



These are the points to remember when you want a date with someone and you want her to say yes for the date.

1.Try not to desperate
You should not show your interest at first time that doesn't mean you don't like her but try not to show that kind of interest in her at first meeting or in first conversation online or on call. Some guys seem more interested at starting stage but some are gradually increase their interest so first impress her then surprise her to ask.

2.Be cool
Whenever you got a chance to talk to her be cool and casual, it means don't praise for self, don't use abuse words and don't be nervous or emotional at that time like if you are in anger or bad mood then don't meet or don't show before her, avoid to make her think about yourself which is situational for you in first meeting. Try less showing off because that would interpret you a shallow person.   




3.Show some care for her
In further conversation on call or in person show some care for her and if it is in your nature then show care for others too. This will give to girl a little comfort with you and make her mind to think with some soft gesture for you. Everybody knows that caring person always liked by people.

4.Respect her
Respect her decision, views or opinion. If she tells some thoughts or views about something then be nice and respect her opinion and if she ask then give yours but it doesn't mean you have to be agree  with her all the time. Because it means you hide your thoughts and personality before her that i don't recommend. 
       


   
5.Don't nudge without reason
Don't message or call without reason because it shows stupidity. It represents your desperate behavior. It doesn't mean to avoid her but there has to be some dignity of man which you should maintain.

6.Being safe guy   
Girls are frank with whom they feel safe. Drop them home safely, if they agree. They will appreciate this. Ask them before sending request on line for social media or for mobile number. Don't call them randomly, always ask them if its okay to call them and ask at what time.      



7.Use humour
Girls attract towards funny guys, so generally in conversation use some humour so they can feel happiness with you. It will create some favour for you. 

8.When you ask a date
Asking for date reveals your real feeling for her so if girl hasn't gone anywhere with you then let it happen with any reason without as a date. Because let the girl know that with you they can have great time. Try some friends outing plan or movie something. this will increase the chance of you getting date with her.

9.Be well dressed
In front of her always be well dressed even in casual way and try good fragrance on you. Be like a gentlemen.     



    
10.Be good listener
In conversation with her ask her likes, dislikes and try to be 
supportive, make her comfortable so that she can tell you her secrets. She should think that you can understand her. 



When you think you impressed her enough then ask her, be brave and take a step, don't worry about rejection it doesn't mean anything negative about you because there can be personal liking also for every person so when you ask and get reject in case never try for her again because if she gonna like you ever then she will try by herself so you don't have to try after all its her decision. but putting some efforts and asking this will lead you at a result at least you can move on with your life otherwise you will always regret for trying a shot. Best of Luck.   


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